We Are Together is being built with input from couples across the UK. Your story, even anonymously, changes what makes it into the app and how it feels to use.
The reason apps fail couples around pregnancy loss is the same reason most products fail their users. Nobody asked. Or worse, somebody asked the wrong people the wrong questions.
Laura's background is research. Kon-ick's is building things people actually use. We agreed from day one that We Are Together would only be built with the voices of people who have lived it. So far, more than 40 people have shared their stories with us. Every single one has shaped a decision in the app.
If you've experienced pregnancy loss, or you've stood next to someone who has, your perspective is the foundation of what we're making.
Two surveys. One for the person who experienced the physical loss, one for their partner. Both anonymous. Both shape every decision in the app.
So many people have been through what you're going through and wished they could read someone else's story, just to know they weren't on their own. We're building a space where those stories live, where you're met with understanding instead of a pop-up telling you to upgrade.
Take the survey →Partners get told to "be strong." To focus on her. Their grief gets put in a box and nobody asks how they're doing. We Are Together refuses to let that happen. Your experience matters just as much, and we want to hear it.
Take the survey →These are anonymised themes from the conversations and surveys we've had so far. They're shaping what We Are Together will look like at launch.
Across the responses we've collected, the most consistent theme is partners being overlooked. By doctors, by family, by the apps they used. They knew it had happened to them too. Nobody else seemed to.
"Did I even qualify to grieve?" The doubt that an early loss isn't a real loss. Almost every couple we spoke to mentioned some version of this, from one partner or both.
Nowhere to go. Nobody to talk to. The forums are inconsistent, the apps don't have anything, and you don't want to wake your partner. Late-night support is a clear, repeated need.
Almost nobody wanted clinical guides or step-by-step "what to do" content. What they wanted was to read someone else's experience, in their own words, and feel less alone in theirs.
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